The man is found AIDS The girl friend does not abandon marrying and giving birth to babies with it without divorcing

The man is found AIDS The girl friend does not abandon marrying and giving birth to babies with it without divorcing
The man is found AIDS The girl friend does not abandon marrying and giving birth to babies with it without divorcing
A lot of hospitals are to us " It is refused that soft " Several persons living with HIV/AIDS were interviewed by staff reporter yesterday Refer to " mutual-aid team in happy life " ,A lot of citizens in Nanjing are not strange, this " the grass root of person living with HIV/AIDS will be organized " established in 2008 ,Every December 1 is World AIDS Day, will stand out and face the media bravely, propagate and defend the knowledge of ending, dispel everybody's prejudice to AIDS people. This year is World AIDS Day, this has already developed into 116 members' non-government organization to find " husband's family " ,Affiliated to Red Cross, Nanjing formally. Yesterday, several persons living with HIV/AIDS uncovered the heartfelt wishes to the reporter yesterday, they said, discrimination than " AIDS " More terrible. The psychology is alive one day, it takes a happy one day soon "Compared with the tumour patient, in fact we are much luckier, we can know the general cycle of one's own life. " It was this grass root that organized in the Tang Dynasty " The leader " ,Wear to he who is proper with graceful style of conversation, also hold a post in an enterprise at present. Brave a the Tang Dynasty, like the first person interviewed by reporter to stand out organize, too. In 2005, 48 -year-old Tang Chao was made a definite diagnosis of and infected HIV, because of CD4 (note: A kind of immunity index) Lower, he has accepted the antiviral treatment. "That day when the result will come out, my wife cries bitterly, she asks me crying, why did not God allow me to live for 50 years old? " The doctor in charge in the Tang Dynasty tells him, cooperate and treat, it is out of question in ten years eight years that live. "But actually, no one knows how long I still can live. " Tang Chao says, under the encouragements of madam and child, he treats actively, the administration is very good, not able to bear medicines at present. And remain the optimistic psychology all the time and pay special attention to the rational meal, insist on taking exercises, CD4 has already reached normal people's index at present. "So long as alive one day, it takes a happy one day soon. " This is " happy life " Aim,say Tang Chao,establish " whether it is happy mutual-aid team of life " Aim,be second-class spread when lasting twoed; Adhere to the secret principle, does not reveal others' personal secrets out; Insist on devoting the principle, offer help to the infeted. Discriminate against it little puzzledly and positively, " soft refusal " A lot of one is all and was made a definite diagnosis of after being infected with HIV virus in the year before last, other people were all ignorant except family. He is normal on and off duty every day all the same while treating actively. However, a traffic accident, let him taste the flavour that AIDS people are discriminated against completely for the previous period. After the traffic accident, Zhang Fan accepts the operation of dept. of orthopedics in a hospital because of fracture, has accepted HIV detection according to the regulation before the skill, two days after the skill, the doctor tells him, helps him to get in touch in a section hospital, and " hospitable " Last infectious hospital by ambulance. It has been already late at that time, after the ambulance sent Zhang Fan to the hospital door, did not leave leaving with a word. Zhang Fan these know, the hospital did not get in touch with infectious hospital at all in advance, hospital have sick bed admit he, lie in him on of walking, bring even wallet on one's body. Zhang Fan having no way phones " The mutual-aid team " ,With the help of volunteer, just pay the cost of hospitalization. Chao Tang say though AIDS enter China for 20 more than year, to " the AIDS " a lot of person These three words are still very frightened. Now, have a lot of hospital " soft to refuse " to whom the intersection of HIV and the infeted adopt . Learn you the intersection of HIV and the infeted, will positive to refuse, until " the berth nervous now " , " the operation can not be arranged " , " you need specialists to treat " The reason of waiting a moment, is transferred from one hospital to another by you. Support the girl friend not to not only has not left, has but also given birth to the child for him finally At one's side, a shy guy stands in the Tang Dynasty. He is lucky, and " mutual-aid team in happy life " too One famous volunteer, he tell reporter,after made a definite diagnosis of HIV the infeted in March of this year, he feels the deepest one, it is the support from family. " I am detection in the premarital checkup, " Say in line with the attitude of responsible for girl friend, he honest all, then two people say good-bye while being lucky. However, as learning his condition, household blame no sentence, parents and two elder sisters are both encouraging him to face actively constantly. Say luckily, mother will phone him every day. In that one of the telephone, mother says to him, " I want to hear you speak, " This makes luckily very moved. He says, he has ever thought of committing suicide, family support to be the motive force that he survives. Having also given an example in the Tang Dynasty, there is a guy over 30 years old Xiao Shen in their group members, people are very outstanding, but since finding after infecting HIV, the whole person becomes very decadent. Later, he got to know a girl, the girl fell in love at first sight to him, initiated the offensive voluntarily. Xiao Shen tells her voluntarily too, " I have AIDS, are you afraid of? " The girl cries, but not left, but encourage Xiao Shen to cooperate with doctor's treatment actively. Under the girl's encouragement, Xiao Shen takes medicine on time, and check regularly, until immunity reaches normal people's standard, the internal virus content is very low too. One year later, two people get married. In marriage life, Xiao Shen has been using the protective measure of the sheath all the time, but the wife still hopes to have a child. The doctor shows after the health status assessed by two people it is still higher that two people bear the healthy child's probability. After pregnancy, the wife checks regularly too, grow a healthy baby until recently. The reporter knows, even if women are positive persons who carry, the mother and baby carrying on the virus during pregnancy block, also can give birth to the healthy baby. (the above personage is an assumed name) (reporter Yu DanDan)


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