The man sees the daughter was born and can't bear - made the transition - excessively frightened faintness of the pressure
The man sees the daughter was born and can't bear - made the transition - excessively frightened faintness of the pressure
See the daughter comes, the new father is frightened the dusk A man in Zhenjiang can't bear " Make the transition " The pressure, it is anxious unexpectedly to " lose favour " from now on Sword of Jiangsu of the near 30 -year-old man in Zhenjiang (assumed name) ,Like to work as father before dawn on July 25. But incredulously, he can't face the coming of the beloved daughter, he sleeps big at home when the beloved daughter falls; And when family told him to go to the delivery room to visit the daughter, he because the overstrain was and frightened unexpectedly, faint but urgent and send the emergency call to hospital on the lift! July 28, reporter fourth the People's Hospital see with daughter living Su Jian of the hospital together in Zhenjiang, sword Su live in the cardiovascular dept.(internal medicine) only. Because has rejected body disease after checking, school's psychologist has already got involved and treated over these days. Four institute mental hygiene associate professor of treatment Zhang ChangChuns in Zhenjiang tell reporters, through diagnosing Su Jian suffers from a kind of first typical generation " only-child " (are abbreviate as " A generation alone " )" lose favour disease" ,Get ready in front of psychology of father yet in Jian Su, beloved daughter it comes he brought to be mostly the pressure and has no measure, and to oneself " Lose favour " Enormous afraid sum anxious. Four doctor in charge of institute cardiovascular dept.(internal medicine) Wu YanJun in Zhenjiang tells reporters, 25 Japan-Soviet swords are transferred to the ward of theirs, symptom to breathe rapid jerking Nuo by the intersection of four limbs and numb brothers at that time. Because too frequently rapid kept in touch with (namely the asthma) ,Appear respiratory alkalosis (oxygen too much but the carbon dioxide has been insufficient in the human blood keep in touch with excessively,) already ,Close to the faintness state! And before this, Su Jian has already rescued in four institute emergency call centres. Through further understanding, Su Jian lives in the east of Zhenjiang, healthy at ordinary times. It is overbearing to suffer from first two years ago, an important symptom had no strength at that time, but resume to be normal gradually through treating. Having illness coming on for concrete time at about 6 o'clock on the 25th early morning this time, Su Jian tells reporters, he has been feeling baffled and nervous and frightened to the daughter's birth all the time, and does not have mental preparation very much. At time when the wife is pregnant, the wife is pregnant and nervous that he even feels. A few days ago, four courtyard gynaecology and obstetrics of Zhenjiang lives after symptom is being obvious that the wife is giving birth to a child, spirit of sword Su more nervous at this moment, that have no idea to accompany. So after only accompanying for half days, are replaced and come back home to have a rest by family such as its mother,etc.. Will it be will it be time before dawn 25, school prepare caesarean birth, consider situation special sword Su, family have not told him to show up, but let it sleep big at home. At about 6 o'clock on the same day early morning, family tell Su Jian daughter's safe news born, hope sword Su can come to hospital to visit the daughter. Su Jian says, after learning the daughter wanted to be born in at the beginning of July, he began to be nervous, expect this to breathe the rapid pit of the stomach and feel a pain; And on tenterhooks all day, fear that will die suddenly at any time oneself, so nowhere dares to go, oneself is originally favorite sings and gives up in the KTV, it is that the unit goes to work, comes back home to surf the Net every day. After receiving the telephones of family on the 25th, he reached the hospital by car, but it is close to the serious uncomfortable symptom of faintness to breathe behind the upper lift rapidly etc.. Do not prop up finally, has seen the girl has been sent to four institute emergency call centres and rescues. YanJun Wu reveal through understand, learn until the intersection of emergency call and centre treat and cure into sword Su, resume consciousness still, think oneself want, die, hold nurse's hand and won't let go in being terrified all the time also. Even if will hold doctor's hand and won't let go frequently after changing over to the cardiovascular dept.(internal medicine). And face the comfort, advice of Deputy Director of institute nursing dept. Shi LiangHua and Wu YanJun, Su Jian says " Much more comfortable in the heart " . Su Jian mother tell reporter whether Jian Su to pass on a skill from a master to a single disciple only son in the house, family pamper him very much at ordinary times, pass by " the meal opens one's mouth the clothing stretches out one's hand " Day,it is even if for wife to if you can't pamper, add in Jian for Su, even have a bath every day clothes are ready from family. " the family successively bought three motorcycles for him, bought the car later, " Very much suitable through the whole journey Jian Su, basically have no setback. And present this kind of state to the son now, she is very that the regret is helpless, comfort the son but not see the result constantly, unavoidable she puts down the granddaughter just born to leave alone, to look after the son meticulously. In addition, the wife on the sick bed cares for Su Jian very much. Every body check normal index and behind getting rid of body disease because of sword Su, school call for the intersection of psychiatric department and doctor hold a consultation, confirm the intersection of sword and psychological disease Su take the major part. Four the intersection of institute and the intersection of mental hygiene and ChangChun Zhang, associate professor of treatment of centre, get involved treatment of sword Su, he tells reporters Su Jian's special symptoms, there are small part first overbearing diseases that leave over the reason, but now mainly " Lose favour disease" Doing mischief. He analyzes, Su Jian always regards oneself as the centre as the only-child who is pampered and spoiled, have not done a good job of the psychological preparation which works as father. The daughter came suddenly now, parents both sides included their wives, must tell most energy and love to look after and was born in the child, the unavoidable to Su Jian one " Care about " Will give a discount, this will make Su Jian present the drop psychologically. In addition, a consistent one pampered and spoiled and have setback, Su Jian oneself have no ability, come, coordinate, handle the turn well, change at all, unintentionally will form, imply by one bad psychology to oneself. This kind " implies" It is anxious, in a trance to show the lighter on spirit, the serious one produced depression, but it is a kind of overreaction under such spiritual high pressure to faint. As to Su Jian's rare disease, Zhang ChangChun proposes Su Jian should imply " strongly " for oneself psychologically first ," does to father, I have already got ready " to alarm oneself ceaselessly ; It is the family that should help he, especially the wife's emotional support more at the same time, communicate more, respect more, pacify more, make it release pressure and anxiety as much as possible. In addition ChangChun Zhang give Jian Su complement in order to resist anxious to use medicine also. (reporter red celestial reporter Wan LingYun in the village)
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