It calls every day equal to having 15 cigarettes to study

It calls every day equal to having 15 cigarettes to study
It calls every day equal to having 15 cigarettes to study
One last ten thousand years ago, the mankind began gregarious life. But today of population explosion, always there are some people around, begin to be crushed by loneliness: It is bustling with activity, dissipated and luxurious and putting on a false show of peace and prosperity in jostling each other in a crowd on the subway, store Let us grow and send out the unprecedented feeling of loneliness. In recent years, the investigation of the American psychologist has offered the most effective evidence for modern city people's feeling of loneliness: In 400 interviewees, 100% of the people have claimed to had feeling of loneliness. An investigation that Sina Web has carried on reveals too, nearly 70% of the people say " loneliness is the normality of the life. " It is a kind of lofty realm to different from the ancient and think it lonely, increasingly many research verifies, loneliness will psychological or physiological to bring the double blow to people. The latest research of U.S.A. even reveals, injure the body lonelily, equate with every day and get drunk or have 15 cigarettes. Americans are one year and lonely 48 days "Once, were regarded lonelily as a kind of noble sorrow. " Jung psychological referral centre of Suzhou supervises and guides kingdom's honour to say, there are only " sages " Just mix and enjoy equal popularity lonelily. Wang Wei's " lacks a person all over inserting Zhu cornel alone in the strange land for the stranger " It is a kind of alien's loneliness; Li Shangying " whether the setting sun limitlessly good, just close dusk " It is a kind of about loneliness late in one's life; Zhu Ge-liang's " bends one's back to the task until one's dying day " It is one kind nobody shares the loneliness of heavy load; That Xin Qiji "make railing all over,nobody meeting,last purpose " It is a kind of loneliness which lacks the bosom friend. Now, just like Zhang Chu sang in the song, the increasingly many person thinks" the lonely person is shameful " . Miss Zhou fights in Beijing beyond leaving home 2000 kilometers alone, for her, in long holidays when others expected festival, but a kind of suffering for her. "Looking at glad going on a tour of a everybody of others, really unwilling to go to act as one is alien. Frequently, can only close oneself at home, sleep until great noon, then open eyes and lie in bed. " Almost the 50 -year-old tight gentleman and serve as leader in one organ, welcome and send off every day, there are many dinner parties sometimes " Fight " ,Catch three or four pieces of field in a whole night. "At over 1 o'clock before dawn some day, crossed quiet Chang'an Avenue and went home by bus, felt very lonely suddenly. The person around, either ask favours of me, or I ask favours of them. Everybody meet and meet with a smiling face, shape and stranger of turning round. " One in Europe reveals, nearly 1/3 of the people often feel lonely to 1200 investigations which adults does. On the latest magazine of a U.S.A. " personality and social psychology ", it lasts 30 years to find after following the trail of 5214 Americans Chicago University, a annual mean of people will feel lonely if a annual mean of people has 48 days. The investigation shows, if one carries " lonely virus " at one's side Friend,there are large 52% than ordinary person getting more lonely to be more fall into possibility on you! Moreover, this kind of infection also has a Domino effect, even the friend who will involve the friend. Endanger the gluttonous bad habit getting drunk and impairing one's health of smoking and getting drunk equally, but few people realize lonelily it is the healthy formidable opponent. According to report of July 28 of Britain " daily post ", a research related to 300,000 people in U.S.A. shows, the danger of the social feeling of loneliness equates with and gets drunk or smokes every day No. 15 Branch, even dangers brought are more serious than to move. The Yang 's of U.S.A. of the leading factor, this research, say, the healthy expert generally thinks, life styles such as smoking, getting drunk and tempering,etc. will influence the health, should also add by one among them " The social relationships " Factor. "What the social feeling of loneliness injures is not merely the elderly, the people of any age all have one. A lot of people live like fish, the existence of less than water of consciousness. " Studies have suggested, 30 millimetres of mercury columns higher of person that lonely person's blood pressure is more active than the social activity, the possibility to suffer from heart disease and apoplexy is 3 times higher, 2 times that probability of dying of heart disease and apoplexy reaches normal people; The lonely person is apt to catch bad hobby, because it will weaken people's willpower and resolution, it is apt to give up sports, incline to absorb more fat, sugar, tobacco and wine; Lonely person's sleep is not good, fast old and feeble; The feeling of loneliness will increase the secretion of hormone cortisol of human pressure, thus weaken the human immune system, increase and suffer from the cancer risk. "Lonely person, lack ' hospitable material ' often in the body, for example let the intersection of people and dynamic dopamine and make people plain serum as stable as Mount Tai have. These neurotransmissions are long-term scarce, will probably bring out depression and recessive schizophrenia finally. " Kingdom's honour is said. People, end of wine, come loose most lonely" the intersection of feeling of loneliness and one mental state only, represent one close psychological condition too. " The subsidiary hospital physical and psychological head of the department Ji JianLin of Tongji University of Shanghai Tongji University says. Managerial expert, doctor of psychology, Zhang YiJun of U.S.A. Georgia Institute of Technology of the EQ say: "Even there are persons of the companion, will feel loneliness. " The investigation of Robert of expert of public policy in Harvard general Terman reveals, the distance that telephone, the network has shortened time and space, but in fact, circle of people more and more little and life individualized, associate competence drop. The data of " American sociology is commented on " reveal, average each American can unbosome the bosom friend of the heartfelt wishes, drop from 3 people in 1985 to 2 people in 2004. The reason why people feel loneliness, because " the nodding acquaintance is getting more and more, close associates are fewer and fewer. " If psychological president of advisory association Wang Yu in Shanghai says, " you may not lack the friend having a meal and drinking, but when you fall ill, how many people do the ones that can send a bowl of hot soup to you have? " Have two most apt and lonely people, one persons of high leader of weight, one empty nest parents to look after the child solo flight. Kingdom's honour is said: "Feeling of loneliness of leader come from, think oneself understand one great pain very fee always. In fact, really great leader, will only pursue the goal that oneself asserts, will not ignore other people think, they are not lonely. " And the child goes out to go to school, go to work, will let the love of empty nest parents not " there is not place that is laid " ,Cause the feeling of loneliness to rise of itself. Two kinds of scenes are aptest to stimulate people's feeling of loneliness. First, end people distribute the wine, second, return to hometown again. JianLin Ji say " can form distinct contrast while being livelying when being lonely having a get-together of end of a performance, let people think, lose, accompany quickly, produce helpless feeling of loneliness while being easy most. " And the person who returned to hometown again, aptest to sigh for time to slip by, old friend and fewer and fewer relatives in home, " homeland " Become the noun in a geographical meaning finally. "Oppose the lonely best method, it is to make several friends without interests entanglement. " Wang wants if say, how many actual advantages the lonely person can not give to you to help you to divert oneself from loneliness or boredom, but you needn't be afraid to associate who pays it much with him. Secondly, while learning to utilize and staying alone Light, become lonely in order to think deeply. Long to think one's own achievement and future, short to think about how is everything going one's own a one day, ? Own mould �� Lei two �� annotate to reveal to off piperazine small-mouthed jar vinegar �� reeds cruel scald coerce Long garden �� punishment Qiong silk tip circles of O Sha of ��� 1 comb, Na of �� Xi of W 1 Lies towerings desolate carry off piperazine small-mouthed jar vinegar �� reeds cruel scald happily in order to remove hairs or feathers to visit prostitutes to smoke jealous Pursue to strike �� school �� and smoke and return to the right Tuan ����'s brilliant brother �� E Yu is stunned to receive Xiang's locust ��?


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