Research claims couple quarrel the wife is apt to suffer from heart disease

Research claims couple quarrel the wife is apt to suffer from heart disease
Research claims couple quarrel the wife is apt to suffer from heart disease
The research investigation of U.S.A. finds, when couple quarrel, wife's apt wounded " heart " ,The risk of suffering from heart disease backward is relatively high. Wife keeping silent in quarrelling over, except suffering from various diseases, mortality is relatively high too. According to Singapore " Lianhe Zaobao ", it is routines that couple quarrel. However, not when you do not think the other side is pleasing to the eye, it is big noisy, or regard as contradicting with silence? The investigation finds, whether give vent to unhappy or silence for being right, there is very great influence on couple's health index, can even cause the death. Massachusetts state of U.S.A. (Massachusetts) Carry on an investigation through 4000 married men and women, the result that the report obtains is: 32% man will worry and unhappy to draw empty to say out totally while quarrelling with the wife, women are only 23%. The report point out women remain silent or submit to humiliation, to that health cause injury greatly; Keep silent oneself, can initiate depression, heart disease, apositia,etc.. The investigation reveals too, those often keep silent, does not like revealing the wife of the worry with the husband, relatively those often express the discontented wife in the heart to the remaining half, the former's mortality is 4 times higher. The adjustment of tone is in couple quarrel over, it is essential too, that is to say, quarrel, should be skillfully noisy too. This skill includes: Judge the case as it stands, does not injure the innocent. Don't involve a lot of old affairs of many years' standing out in the quarrel absolutely, don't attack the other side's family, relative, friend, colleague,etc.. Retreat in order to advance, from accusing to communicate. Centralized fire power, prevent from emptily and quarrel over the vacant lot. Communicate effectively and include: Talk about " I " Do not talk about " you " ,Do not rant and rave, does not rebuke to one's face the words which interrupt the other side. Don't make the consuming cold war. Don't think that punish the other side in various forms, because you punish oneself at the same time in this. The marriage expert says, affectionate couple and lover, know how to give the other side a step all over the world, oneself will be a past master who plays the step too.


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