Many high pressures of boy's continuation class suffer from the epilepsy suddenly Mother regrets having too high expectations

Many high pressures of boy's continuation class suffer from the epilepsy suddenly Mother regrets having too high expectations
Many high pressures of boy's continuation class suffer from the epilepsy suddenly Mother regrets having too high expectations
The child goes to school we work, the child banks up with earth excellently we help entertain the guest of honour, festivals or holidays do not belong to parents either without belonging to the child; What eyes are stared at is marks of the examination, what ears are heard is the grapevine news about educating from various places, talk about in the mouth count bank up with earth excellently too; Think even " love her to hurt she, it loves shes to be cruel, can't right away lose bright future happy childhood for one? " A few days ago, first counted oneself " abnormal " one by one Educate the behavioral hot card <>Release on the net, thousands of the intersection of net friend and money order receipt to be signed and returned to the sender issue the view, at one time, " abnormal mother, abnormal father " Become, long to see the son succeed in life parents' pronoun while being numerous. In Shenyang, the great wave mother of great wave is demonstrating the scene of the online hot card with the son's experience. However, the heavy pressure has not become and encouraged, has made her son's epileptics break out On December 5, the staff reporter saw the great wave great wave mother overcome with regret in the general hospital in Military Area Command of Shenyang. Various make up to the healthy son and suffer from epilepsy great wave great wave and 11 years old this year suddenly, but for illness, it is entered that he is preparing for the examination the beginning small. Heard from great wave mother of great wave, when the son was 4 months old, brought it to the nurse. And she and husband are busy with the undertaking wholeheartedly. The son came back to oneself's side at the age of 6. The child is very obedient, does not like making a sound, the personality is partial and introversive. In order to let the son become self-confident, husband and wife give to several interest specialty classes of son's newspaper, soccer, swimming, climbing,etc.. Having studied in the primary school, husband and wife give to child's continuation class such as newspaper English again. In an instant, the son is 8 and a half years old. One evening, the son lay in bed straight suddenly, this frightened husband and wife terribly. Take son to the hospital, as a result is diagnosed as the epilepsy. Later, the great wave great wave had illness coming on by irregular steps, distracted spirit is several seconds, fell down suddenly sometimes sometimes, have fallen down on the road when being the most dangerous, is almost bumped against by the car In order to look after the son, the great wave mother of great wave has been invited to the company long holidays, have been accompanied at son's side all day. Does the doctor analyze " the director, really did I force the child's disease the pressure will really aggravate the condition? My starting point has no fault, I love the child! " The tear of great wave mother of great wave flows over, inquire the doctor before one's eyes again and again. Tell her, explained with popular words before Deputy Director of Shenyang department of neurosurgery of general hospital of Military Area Command Yuan Guan, the epilepsy is that the patient's cerebral cortex has presented pathological change together, the original law discharges and turns into putting after deciding to put, there is no some laws at all, being stimulated by a bit will discharge, will thereupon result in fainting from fear, twitching. In recent years, the expert of dept. of neurology discovers, nervous and aggravating the epilepsy condition in the pressure big city, cause it break out frequency increase, it is in weight for symptom to. The disease of the small great wave has its pathologic foundations, however, the pressure is too big, let the condition be really aggravated nervously. At present, the great wave great wave has already accepted the nervus vagus stimulates the skill, has already come back home to recuperate now. Show, without the pressure or other and stimulate in surprise before Yuan Guan, his epileptics will be cured. The expert view parents need to give children happy childhood with this, social researcher of academy of sciences Zhang SiNing in Liaoning says, parents need to change this kind of current situation excessively educated, return a happy childhood to children. She says, life will influence it all one's life in the child's childhood, will impose to excessively educate on child's consciousness pressure, parents hope to change and encourage the pressure, this is impossible! Once the ambient pressure causes child's psychological pressure, run into the child with a bit more fragile heart, will produce reacting force. In addition, parents should give to build the psychological growth environment with happy health in the child's childhood. Don't do comparison of child and someone. Train children, it is not education of a intelligence factor that parents should pay attention to it even more, for example, teach him how to associate with people, how to meet people treat things, how psychology grows up healthy and sound Let children make the best oneself, enough if oneself improves everyday. Really did I force mother complain the child's disease tearfully? Reporter: How you see that on net to call oneself " Abnormal mother " Parents? Great wave mother of great wave: I am not abnormal, I but expected value is too high. Reporter: Do you hope what the son will be in the future previous? Great wave mother of great wave: (think) As for the achievement, have not still really thought more. Before the son has not fallen ill, the top five of the class, basically belong to the all-round child. I hope the son will be that a heart is strong in the future, optimistic, the ambition is optimistic that have a bright and cheerful disposition, exceed the person of us Who like, force so child! Reporter: Various classes of the newspaper, would he like to go? Great wave mother of great wave: Not all willing, however, he goes, say either that does not like going, come back home to call keeping, I have not looked on as the thing of going back Swim in class, boxing class, weiqi's class, calligraphy class, these ones that train child's interest hobby, have not counted as English class of those, yet and counted the class The others' child mends, does your child dare not to mend? The flower is being given to the son in one month " The specialty " The money had has more than 4,000. Reporter: Do you regret? Great wave mother of great wave: Regret, if I do not force him, if I do not give him a pressure, if my expected value is not so high The great wave mother of great wave is unwilling to go on again, put mood in order, " don't ask again, but, you can tell this sentence to the whole parents all over the world, so long as the child is healthy, safe, happiness, happiness are enough, what specialty, take an entrance examination, it is not important! " (reporter Li Jing)


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