The white collar marriage state investigation - happiness key element ranks the third loyally and primarily

The white collar marriage state investigation - happiness key element ranks the third loyally and primarily
The white collar marriage state investigation - happiness key element ranks the third loyally and primarily
Recently, the magazine office of " well-to-do level " united the media of Tsing-Hua University and investigated the laboratory, released " Chinese marriage and sex are happy " Survey report. Result reveal with join the intersection of marriage and main forces, " the high the intersection of happiness and sense, low degree of stability " after the more and more 80 Become the new tendency of compatriot's marriage. Then in Changsha, how is the white collar's marriage state? This newspaper has made a network questionnaire too, the investigation result reveals, the happy key element ranks in everybody's mind: Income, harmonious sex, at peace with the other side family, the healthy and lovely child each other loyal, appropriate. 48.3% of the people are relatively satisfied with couple life, about 37% of the people had once had a sexual behavior outside extramarital affair or wedding. An over half person investigated of investigation result considers that divorces according to our network questionnaire result, think " the marriage is happy " Net friend account for 46.27%,last " it is clear when cleaning the street not to say " There is be 45.59%," like a mess " without being said in people on only 8.14% . At first glance, the Changsha white collar does not have low satisfaction to the marriage. But meanwhile, the thought of divorcing " flashes " Person 36.89%, be " lasted a lot of second-class " The ones that divorce have 23.52%. This seems to imply, more than half of marriages of person investigated do not have high enough degree of stability. The policy of base of Changsha Municipal Bureau of Civil Affairs has offered a group of data too, in January - May of this year, in the urban area of the market of Changsha, 3032 pairs of couple in all part company with each other. Last year, the total number was 12683 pairs to divorce. Vigorous love, like, set turning round while being convenient. Until the intersection of couple and proportion in married crowd increase after the 80, respect self- liberating a generation of of individual character, rewriting definitioning of marriage further. The conclusion that " well-to-do level " magazine draws is: High happiness sense, low degree of stability become the new tendency of compatriot's marriage. In Changsha, do not make an exception either. The psychological expert of the emotion of middle and southern university Professor Guo Ping says, analyzes the divorced case of young people at present, " excited knot, reason are left " It is the most distinct characteristic. The network questionnaire still reveals, " minor matter of the fuel,rice,oil and salt and basic daily necessities " , " in compatibility of temperament " , " family's financial affairs " Result in quarrelling over the first three big problems of splitting among couple. To white collar, the financial burden is heavy and " house work is retarded " ,If is scarce and tolerant and understanding, often apt to produce and talk about the fuse divorcing rashly. Is the magic weapon of the happiness marriage of the investigation result 2 what is the first key element in the loyal happiness marriage each other? 41.62% of the net friends choose " loyally each other " . Immediately after it, 26.90% of the people are inclined to " appropriate income " ,13.87% approve of " harmonious sex " ,In addition have " At peace with the other side family " . Participating in the net friend of this investigation has 40% after 80, do not exceed 3 years 34% marriageable age. So is easy to understand, " grow a healthy and lovely child " Ranked all key elements most at the end, 14 net friends showed one's own " Ding KeZu " Identity. Outside love between man and woman is long, material factor determined our marriage quality. Not long ago, first ask modern drama of " naked write " perform in Beijing. A pair of lovers for many years in love, by critical juncture getting married, a succession of mines such as house, car, working, registered permanent residence " exploded" one by one . " naked wedding " ,Meaning has no material foreshadowing, get married simply because of being in love. It has prevailed for a period of time as the network boom word only, has been regarded as " deceive oneself as well as others " by more people gradually . The net friend " embraces the moon in the chest " Say: "The naked wedding is good, can need mother-in-laws to agree too. " Theme song of modern drama shout " get married, behave like a hoodlum ", sing like this: "Let all of us get married, we are not bought if the room rate is too high, if all people do not buy, the room rate will fall down sooner or later. " It is said, when the performer sings here, smile by oneself. The investigation result 3 is having misgivings, criticizing and strangling the happiness marriage and keeping the same with investigation result of " well-to-do level " magazine directly coldly and constantly, " suspect " Also appraised as the No.1 killer of the white collar happiness marriage of Changsha, over 30% of the net friends throw the vote to it. The ones that arrange behind have " Cold " , " constant criticism " , " is chatted about divorcedly " With " showing due respect for the other side's feeling in front of the stranger " When. Without trust, the marriage is dangerous. In " defended war of the marriage " that heat sows for the previous period, Tong Da is together from morning to night for Guo Yang and beautiful woman superior playing it, even go to the kindergarten to meet children together, let wife Li Mei feel nervous fully. Li Mei has begun " Tail " Take action, even found out that " shines the happiness " Way,it is if you can't last Guo Yang, " it is make warm to send off " not to last building site every day ,Return the invitation " Rival in love " Have a meal together. Things go contrary to one's wishes, Guo Yang does not have enough trust to complain about Li Mei, Li Mei thinks it is proving he has something on one's conscience that Guo Yang conceals sedulously. Finally, Guo Yang is forced to reside at the building site permanently, the problem has not been solved, but crack is deeper and deeper Similar plot, may perform at our side every day. The wife steals a glance at the husband's conversation to record, the husband suspects the wife dresses up beautifully and has another appointment, hold the sand in hands in just as love, it is the faster run off closely that hold. How important is the marriage happy to us on earth? Red network network investigation reveals, over half of the persons think, the marriage is happy to account for more than 70% of the overall happiness sense of life. It is " a hundred per cent " to answer Net friend,too approach twenty percent. Investigation result 4 about 37% net friend admit frankly once having extramarital affairing nature, what difficult topic that bring the matter up it is. In the investigation of this newspaper, feel " relatively satisfied with " about couple life With " too comfortable " Net friend,account for total number 55%. Asked until frequency of sexual life, over 60% of the interviewees say that there are 1-2 sexual lives every week, 13.71% of the people reach 3 or more times. Synthesize these data, the Changsha white collar " good fortune of sex " very much . Nearly 40% of the net friends think, the high pressure of the job is the key reason for influencing couple life quality. This year, Chinese overall well-to-do level research center has made investigation to compatriot working time, 73% of the people should work for more than 40 hours in one week, 25.2% of the people should even work for more than 50 hours. The pressure after 80 stands in the breach, buying house, price, and expand and employ the competition of job market that brings in the university, tow the tired out body, discuss what " interest of sex " it is . The people in Changsha are not conservative too to the attitude of sexual behavior and extramarital affair outside the wedding. About 37% of the persons investigated admit frankly, had once had sex or extramarital affair outside wedding oneself. If really meet another heart appearance target, what is to be done? The net friend not making it clear, will refuse or accept exceeds half, only 30% of the net friends choose to " say "no " firmly " . According to the research of Professor of the People's University of China sociology department Pan Suiming, in terms of possibility taking place in sexual behavior outside the wedding, the rich are 6.1 times of the poor's. This result shows, the sexual behavior is a kind of " showing off consumption " in a certain meaning outside the wedding . From this view point, have after the certain 60 of wealth accumulation and after the 70, than housing loan, promote, press after the 80 breathless advantage more. [Extend, read ] Shanghai and Beijing, Shenzhen most easy to breed city of extramarital relation in the investigation of " well-to-do level ", interviewed what the married personage has also elected in the impression " China is aptest to breed in 10 cities of the extramarital relation " ,According to ranking successively sequentially: Shanghai, Beijing, Shenzhen, Guangzhou, Hong Kong, Macao, Taibei, Chongqing, Sanya, Chengdu. Shanghai, Beijing, Shenzhen and Guangzhou before the rank is leant against most are all a gleam of city. The analyst thinks, the pressure, competition of the big city lead to the fact people are easier to be hollow, need a certain consolation; In addition the city is great, flowability is large, the probability found is very little. Specially investigate extramarital affair according to one in Shenzhen " Private detective " Introduce, there are more than 200 similar companies in Shenzhen the ambience is checked outside doing the wedding at present. Quite a deep one is to let this private detective experience, the extramarital affair has been already aboveboard from changing into furtively, "now, the woman white collar of Shenzhen holds a part-time job and acts as the other person, it is not the specific case. " In the investigation, live apart the 8th, 9th, 10th's city is Chongqing, Sanya, Chengdu. About Chongqing, " beauty " Have already become a label of this city. So, in people's thinking, this city full of the beauty, something should happen. And the intersection of travel and taste, unused breath of Chengdu of Sanya let them become the intersection of people and affair under heart high to take place place too. (deep and clear reporter Zhang Ying of morning paper in Hunan)


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