The woman - marriage of divorcing is very far ambiguous and very near Blindlying date is invited " Go to bed "
The woman - marriage of divorcing is very far ambiguous and very near Blindlying date is invited " Go to bed "
Confide: The fragrant plum gender of the cover: Woman age: Job of 39 years old: The teacher interviews and writes: Sub Jin no in I " Have the woman left " ,I have wanted the love I divorce for two years, only because ex-husband's gambling and climps up a rich old woman by nature. The sensible daughter hopes too I remarry, can look for a man with sense of duty of families, lived a happy life from then on. However, it is multifarious that others give to the man that I introduced, or the old,weak,sick and disabled, or eat the soft meal. Especially a bald man of experience, nit-pick to me, is really attacked. I am a grade teacher, be regarded as a person in cultural circles too anyhow, the stature is not out of shape either, the sample is not very ugly either. Think, it should not be too difficult thing to look for a matched man. However, I can not really afford to enjoy the personal attack brought in this kind of blind date, the bitterness and dreary of heart, I'm afraid the woman that has only gone through could realize. I do not really understand: Why is the man the fragrant bun to divorce? Is the divorced woman the product of converting into money? Why a 50 -year-old man, return the wrinkles on the face of woman 40 years old of suspicion? When I do not plan to remarry, have opened a joke with me, just let me meet five paintings (assumed name) in reality ,Appearance of him, give me an injection cardiotonic, make me self-confident and much. Wu DanQing is that I, in understanding of friend's home, he is that kind of man who is polite and cultured, wear a pair of spectacles. As the girl friend tells me silently he is a single man, 43 years old, at the time of the situation that work in the public institution,etc., I suddenly saw the light, she called me originally, it was out of ulterior motives. Whether I ask the other side and know them couple's purpose, the girl friend says her husband should reveal this information to himmed, anyway he often rubs meals to eat at their home too at ordinary times, it is very natural thing to touch each like this. At the dining table, opposite to girl friend arrange, sit I five painting, then she exert and pout one's lips as a signal to me meaningful, imply I see him one to know. The dining table of girl friend's family is very big, without rotary table, when I stand up to insert dishes, Wu DanQing reacts quickly, he has changed that dish of dishes to this side of mine simply. Then, insert several courses in front of him in my bowl frequently solicitously, see beverage of I on the cup low to go down, at he continue at once, say jokingly this to " make presents provided by else " . The girl friend strikes while the iron is hot: " then you will ask the fragrant plum to eat Kentucky tomorrow evening, will not make presents provided by else " . Wu DanQing says buoyantly: "It is to be, fragrant plum my honour in Ken! " Suddenly, my face sends perming, shy like young girl arriving at puberty. This and that kind of past blind date flavour are as far apart as heaven and earth. I laugh awkwardly, refuse to say yes or no. There is one kind just right of blue and green attention of Wu Dan naturally, let me neither think enthusiasm excessive, can experience a care. Later, we said good-bye to girl friend's family together. Two people walk along the rich way of the health, he sends me home. We go straight and leave, buses and taxi go over from our side, but the meaning that go by bus that none want us. While passing by Kentucky, he says: "Let's enter to sit down. " I say: "Exempted today. " He will say at once: "We empty stomach come on, experience set menu of here tomorrow then. " I nod smiling. It seems his psychology is still very young. While crossing the road, he has stretched out one's hand to draw me, it is very natural, I have not refused. The woman always longs for the romantic love. I was thinking at that time: I am not " Have the woman left " ,I want to pursue the love, it is very good if can have had this kind of feeling with this person at one's side all the time. At that night, the girl friend calls to ask how I feel, and say five paintings feedback news to give to her, say it is very good to my impression. Let me say others should be good. The girl friend says she sees his salary income is more steady, age is more suitable, people are neither old fashioned and inflexible nor vulgar, just introduce us to know each other. But she remind me whether say he watch the intersection of young girl and people, take me oneself, weigh in the hand again, say they married couple can only play a function pulling strings. The man's indulgence, let me flee from the evening of next day, Wu DanQing invites me to go to Kentucky. He wants me to check singly, I see that hesitate at so expensive some prices. It was he that ordered the same set menu finally. While checking, I am vying for paying the bill, he wants me to show due respect for a little of men's feeling. I have to be by him. At that time, he was fitting up, would take me to have a look, said that experienced the rural scenery there in the house of the north of the bridge. I think a man wants me to see his house, should treat me as the future hostess of his family. Then, I go joyfully. The one that went was weekend that day, that was the third meeting of ours. I can not expect Wu DanQing to keep me and spend the night in his house absolutely. He has never said that likes the words of I,etc., has not talked about the marriage. If he just keeps guests or fiancees and gives to me alone equally a room get accommodation for one night, I do not oppose either. He is not, but the one that is swept in the past is gentle and cultivated, requirement and I cohabit in room one. Afraid I refused at that time, called I " wife " . This lets me remember the experience of a good friend comes, she is taken into one's own possession in the name of love by the man twice, and then does not discuss the marriage and say why make the rope of roots entangle each other? When she wants them to be responsible for, one of their is said: "You are not a virgin unmarried young woman, what responsibility is shouldered? " One said: "Your wedding bed, obstetric table are all published on, did not I care? " She also says that there are women more unlucky than she, that man still makes unfounded countercharges after gaining extra advantage by unfair means: "Who knows how many men 's bed have you had? " Seem the intersection of he and easy woman that receive, dumb person can only take the rhizome of Chinese goldthread. Because the girl friend's lessons drawn from others' mistakes, I say to Wu DanQing: "What international joke do you open? How much do you understand me? How much do I understand you? " He hears, say to me as seeing the bizarre entity: "I have not joked, the man does not need to open this kind of joke! Do not live in order to understand in depth? " I understood him at last, but I did not have his fashion, I was unable to meet him to head direct for " theme " Fast rhythm! In the night, we part on bad term, he has not sent one step to me, has let myself feel about in the dark to block the car. I thought it so broken, but the last five paintings called and invited me again in one week. I think he passes the thinking of one week, it's time to introspect, should understand a woman refuses the insistance of the back. The results are met again, he meets me to go to the theater to go to the theater like having no thing, say it is the ticket that a friend gave. That is some plays, it is just some vulgar meat or fish cross-talks, but he can laugh heartily. Leave once again, he meet I go the intersection of he and house watch disc is some vulgar video disc, he pull my shoulder into one's arm teach me while thinking, say when the man needs women to respect, need women to cooperate, understand the woman who the man needs most, it is the most charming woman He become more and more direct. Saw me not utter a sound, he thought the lesson which he taught had produced function, the rule that have not begun the trick, I " rise " Place stood up, pick up and make taking leave. He catches me and says: " ? Wen is coerced Comb �� Avoid ��'s playing servant �� Fu time offer as a gift flounder heavy curtain last head �� sink to play beautiful to bungle flags extensive smell of fish to speak more angry to tan ���� meat and fish dishes dream appearance ����� wave roast meat last �� of of �� very than Xi ���� s slow Extensive �� is peaceful to blow and herd the ���� natural pond Shen of pure stem of � of ����'s defect to lie prone �� Song distant �� iridium arrange Zhyuan terrified � of outstanding talent to shake short of moneyly? That night, he was sending messages constantly, it is " sick " to use , " abnormal " ,etc. word irritate I. All I delete. From then on, we made a clean break. Late love, the male genital was warm later such as autumn, I knew a man, the primary impression is careless. Can drink tea for the second time, he expounds one's own view to me boldly, says he hopes to let the individual character companion solve the physiological demand, does not consider the marriage, if I agree, stay and accompany him at that night. I am frightened terribly, am busy saying that expresses gratitude to him for being so blunt, has not delayed my time. That man laughs, my idea of smiling is still so outmoded. In this way, I have produced the frightened psychology to the man, I even worry for the daughter's future. If how good she is a boy, let me educate the son well from now on, let him understand how to respect women. But mine is the daughter, she will be as unfortunate as me in the future, are men running into it all people dregs? Later, I saw a model on the net: " One men net friend that I know, one divorce woman at he tell me gang up recently excitedly, how affectionate how beautiful to say, how to make him infatuated. I have asked him one sentence very insensibly: ' you the one that is going to marry ', his answer finally: ' pah pah pah, I am an unmarried man, and what is her knot? ',it believe will last all woman shocked this words! " See such a model, really make people bitterly disappointed. Perhaps it is fair to live to people, it lets you suffer enough from the back tribulation of life, sweetness of life of always letting you have a trial test. Just at this moment, I knew yellow achievement (assumed name) . Precisely, we know at a parents' meeting, his daughter and my daughter are of the same class. The intersection of he and daughter learn, good at, at the intersection of parents and meeting, speech of him let I to " man " Two words are regarded with special esteem. He said he would have ability to an intact family of child as the single-parent family, it is unfortunate; But he has created the good study condition for child, it is lucky Talk about the sigh for it of parents. Perhaps it is the child of the single-parent family that suffers commiserate with each other, my daughter often takes the daughter of the yellow achievement to home to play, or oneself go the intersection of they and house play, come back can say how to her it will be uncle Huang fine. The children's dealings, make us adults keep in touch too. Can find out, yellow achievement is wished eagerly into a family, he often tries to be friendly with I, is that kind of very tangible words. All my family has physical work which need man does, he helps to do. Celebrating a festival, I call they father and daughter to gather a meal in the family too. Now, we know more than half a year, he respect very much me, with at all different man those in the past, his care is revealed at heart out, but not show someone, the feeling for me, just like the warm sun in this autumn, non- warm, but make warm. Say also he,one piece man if woman of each of true love,there are that wedding occupy to injure by she on he, but go to respect that takes good care of her. By contrast, those were hitting" understood " in the past The man of the license plate, only dally with a shop sign of women. This lets me remember a novel name - -The marriage is very far, it is ambiguous and very near. Pour out the story in last issue of reader's voice: Will get married shortly, the moment when sweet are the fruits of labour, but learn the source taking place in tragedy originally in surprise. Overnight, abandoning oneself and grandmother's father for many years becomes roots of the trouble, when father turned round again, Lin Yi chose the indifference to take things. Which is right and which is wrong? How to clear up the grief that the forest justice is with deep-rooted heart Has boiled bitter life into the experience of the sweet life forest justice and moved me deeply, although the story is a bit sad, but it is gratified to let people produce a silk, the grandmother's love is full of his life, let him understand the love, the society is tolerant. Unfortunately the uncle breaks one of truth, this have a layer of shade in his life afterwards to will let, the forest justice is the person understanding the emotion very much fortunately. I believe, so long as there is love in the heart, can smooth all pain of injury, he can unquestionably boil bitter life into sweet life. (seal examines the planning designer of the treasure) To temper it is wealth that lose mother while as a child, originally is very bitter, let whom people entangled with father unique life. If disasters pile up on one another, make Yi Lin lose pair of parents, love, feed pigs, plant dish to raise the adult by grandmother. Though life offers his childhood not to have too bright memory, however, behind bad luck comes good luck not all bad thing, the growth in the adverse circumstance, will temper and temper the will of a person further. This textbook of difficult life, have brought up his dogged spirit of hard struggle. He has understood strongly, has understood the changes in temperature of human world even more, thus just cherish hard-won happy life further. So after the joyous wedding, that time when he took over mother's young photo from hands of cousin, the tear flowing, it is to mother's memory, it is the thanks to life too. This piece of unusual experiences, it will be the wealth that he benefited from all one's life. (Yuan would rather full of trees a staff member) There is shade in the heart, by going diligently and changing the dying early of gentle mother of middle forest justice, father is unique, one is happy that he has lost the child of the same age that dully. Have left the eternal wound in immature soul, and make him in in the sadness and painful on the emotioning for a long time. When he draws out photos again, two drops of tears have fallen down. I do not think the sadness is an only commemorative way, make great efforts to do the thing that oneself likes, use, go, create bright diligently, time to fade from memory all magic weapon, walk out sad, smile in the face of the life later on. (money flies you art design) Please put down the life experience of the burden forest justice hated and is gone through and full of unfortunate and frustrations, fortunately he improves oneself and supports oneself, and grandmother making nothing of hard ship brings him up putting up with hardships. Got married after marrying the wife nowadays, the day which seem happy is coming. But on his bottom of heart, has a deep regret, the blood uncle refuses to participate in one's own wedding, tear covered with dust painful memory, let putting a own one at the moment while being passing bloody. Sometimes is too clear really as to people it is a kind of cruelty, if it is understandable to choose to continue criticizing for even hating father in the forest justice too, father has not done well after all, the responsibility to the limit that should try a son, husband and father and taking on. But if heart of people confine on hatred and grievance always, he himself either will live light and happy, moreover, the other side is still one's own close relative. (pretty and dazzling staff member Cao)
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