The 1st generation of only-child's family old man enters " The empty nest one "
The 1st generation of only-child's family old man enters " The empty nest one "
Hundred million sub streets of water according to week reach the statistical data of the community, in 4800 families of this community, 30% of the families are empty nest families of old age, in these empty nest families, more than 40% are the 1st generation of only-child's family. This means, the 1st generation of only-child's family old man enters " empty nest one " ,Thus initiate more questions of supporting parents. Yesterday, this director of community residents committee Zhang XiuLan said while giving an interview, the community, through " only-child's family cares about the system each other " at present ,Solve this realistic problem, and guarantee this system is implemented effectively, it is a harmonious neighbourhood relation that can't be restrained with system. The neighbour attends to in hospital for 20 daysing The child works in Shanghai, should do the operation when falling ill, who comes to attend to? This is the greatest problem that an only-child's empty nest family faces. Zhang XiuLan says, the community knows that arranges for volunteers to arrange an order according to class and grade, attend to the patient for more than 20 days after the situation. "This the intersection of we and community problem not can solved. " What the patient attended to are all only-child's families that participate in, to be precise it is the empty nest family of only-child's family. "Until one children have personal understanding while being inconvenient around only people these, feel indebted as if it were received in person, so help and oneself situation the same the intersection of family and that kind from the deep of the heart. " Administered by community Residential Area this to begin, move in 2002, middle-aged person that move in endure old person, and these people are mostly owners of the 1st generation of one-child certificate. "The only-child leaves home and goes to school, hunts for a job, goes abroad, or there are one's own nuclear families, the original family becomes the empty nest family. " Zhang XiuLan says, the main body of the volunteer's team is the empty nest family of these only-children at present. The investigation finds, a lot ages of these only-children empty couple of nest family have been just close to 60 years old, compared with twenty -year-old old person of seven, they have the ability to act as the volunteer, in order to realize " The person who helps people helps oneself " . The family supports parents the way encounters reality awkwardly The 1st generation of only-child's parents' concept is involved in fact " The 1st generation of only-child " Concept. The only-child between 1976 and 1985 called the 1st generation of only-child to usually born. According to relevant statistics, the 1st generation of only-child's parents of city of China enter the proportion of one of empty nest 35% - 40% . The relevant person of Municipal Bureau of Civil Affairs in Dalian is saying when speak of question of supporting parents, in the traditional culture in China, it is the way of supporting parents advocated by culture too that it is main that the family supports parents, born in child, parents asserted children shouldered the duty-bound bringing up obligation to one's own life in old age; But fact so often, they too high to expect cause empty nest, extremely disappointed to children. Link up frequent, interdynamic more families in some parents with children especially, the leaving of the child not only makes the center of life shift but also let the family lose the happy, happy and auspicious atmosphere suddenly. The important role who the child acted among them was evacuated suddenly, parents were at a loss as to what to do. "This is the greatest problem that the parents of only-child's family face too. " " there is a nurse, go out and have cars, not visit each other all their lives at home " Seem, become medium-to-high grade the intersection of neighbourhood and relation portrayal to close Residential Area already, but " only-child's family cares about the system each other " Approved here, have in fact reflected only-child's empty thinking of state of one's own life in old age of nest family too by the height. The government makes various supporting parents in the way platform except that the organization with the historical origin supports parents, according to the stipulations of public document of Dalian, from this year, utilize 3 years, standard of 2000 old persons of radiation at least of service centre of supporting parents according to each community, build 255 communities in the community in urban and rural areas of the whole city and support parents in the service centre, finish more than 80 every year on average. "What the service centre implemented is menu type service that the community supports parents, the old man can be chosen the suitable way of supporting parents according to one's own situation; The organization supports parents, asks old and supporting parents at home in the daytime, or as a playground, choose different services, pay the relatively cheap expenses, and the old men who meet certain condition enjoy the service free, this has reflected the general favor moderately of supporting parents too. " The social welfare of Municipal Bureau of Civil Affairs of Dalian and relevant personage of social affairs place say. The community supports parents the service centre has a most important task, it is to make a service platform, let the personage including volunteer participate in getting and supporting parents to come in the middle.
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